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Massage techniques

Wednesday, October 14th, 2009

Massage is a process that, viewed globally, is very complex so that action as well as practical methods of application.

Its effects are manifested at several levels.
On a physical level primarily acts on the skin, muscles, joints and ligaments. In the context of this work are very important effects of toning the skin, the modeling of physical structure by eliminating redundant tissue. On another level deep massage works by stimulating and harmonizing the activities of internal organs. Many women who have had intensive massage courses and self-massage reported that were surprised to find that the accelerated digestion, constipation or bloating is gone, the old accustomed indigestion that had an apparent worsening and then disappear etc. complete. All this had the happy effect of harmonious adjustment of weight, easier removal of superfluous fat, strengthen muscles, increase overall vitality.

Psychological level, massage has echoes whose depth was conditioned mainly by: – intensity, duration and frequency with which it was made massage – The degree of concentration of attention during the massage – which was made in the area massage

Intensity, duration and frequency that was done showed that massage, as was done more frequently, with higher intensity and longer sessions, this process has influenced more psyche, in effect, harmonized.
The degree of concentration of attention during the massage is related not only to massage the person’s attention (and although it is of great importance), and especially the individual attention concentrated. Attention better means a better awareness of emotional decommitments occurring and therefore a significant quickening in the harmonization process on all levels.
Area at which the massage is very important. It was noted that the breast is the most sensitive, the sensitivity decreasing from top to bottom. Thus massage waist will bring \ “echo \” less intense mental (or in any case less aware) than als years, massage your thighs will generate answers in spiritual plan less intense than the waist, etc..
Representations made to the many women who have applied this procedure allows us to say that massage can accelerate and even unlock the harmonization process of psyche. It helps to (re) awakening emotional, to (re) dynamic and refined sensuality, can provide an expanded reliance on its being and its body.
The massage was reached on substantive issues releasing psychic (which strike strong harmonious development of practitioners) such as frigiditatea, excessive appetite, lack of interest cvasitotala own body, neglect etc..
The mind, massage has a significant benefit by unlocking and harmonization plan psychic (providing an appropriate background doing mental processes), by improving the intake of consciousness on their own body (which will then help mentalizarii process initiated in order to harmonize the physical), by removing certain somatic problems at that strike harmonious intellectual development.
The mind in turn, like the psyche, comes to support massage by adopting a constructive thinking, and anticipate that evoke profound beneficial effects of massage. View full faith and force the body’s beneficial changes that will occur in the carrying out of massage, that thought will become so for the massaging, masseur and for a real tool, which will model a unique blend of body, using is the integration time massage practice.

 

Sensual massage

Wednesday, October 14th, 2009

INTRODUCTION

e evening-night and you are with your princess-drawn blinds in the bedroom if it’s too light to be somewhat shade-leaves
-not have to bother anyone and remind them that’s sure not a one to be bothered by anyone
slow-make music and carefully chosen CDs and here we list in addition to what you recommended sportistu
-less essential oil of jasmine (but discreet) generates a variety of fresh air

You need a large bed that was just lying incapeti both (so is contraidicata a sofa)
-must be very very clean hands (this thing going very well after you have made love and went but I recommend a shower before and without having made love to her a few days)
-put some ice on the bed 2.3 …. You light scented candles (no more that imbacsesti air) any cream etc etc. ….
the bed spread girl dressed as if just … came bluigi or I know them from you give you a pair of tracksuit pants and a shirt and wide-as you relax You must be dressed as
-is well above all to know that if you do not love the girl and if no one loves you not come out anything …..

ACTION

-start by talking to her … need to feel close to you … you know … creates a love connection at mentally … discuss your future TOGETHER …. slowly move the conversation to sex … but do it slowly …. thinking about it to want to make love to you ……
take it easy in my arms without a strange … not say anything … not a kiss on the mouth … let you breath near her ear so that you feel your breath on his cheek and ear area slowly Slowly all the top lip with a light kiss on the cheek and walk your breath on her face while a very close brush with the lips … if he wants to kiss you refuse it … should be relaxed
-not peasant and not put your hands on her breasts first …. touch her neck gently with fingertips on … … a naked body all at a time and slowly let one already empty when not May reasoning and lost control
touch-your hands easily throughout the body with an area as large hands and especially walking in a half-mm above the skin they
-try rubbing an easy to everything from feet to head ….
-not reach them when you nipples with his hands than it imports
-last places where you must touch her breasts and are bikinii
-play with her … kisses and caresses until alternate crazy-if you get on it and make sure you do not let it … an easy touch all over your body with your body … there are too many to say about what ……. kisses and caresses every area of the body ….. and I think I could write a book … but I will say something to me wreak havoc with any woman

ATTENTION

-no hurry at all
It’s not compulsory to have an orgasm-but may be the man foreplay
You care not to lose you control your breathing
-be very sensitive to any movement
-beyond all this if not love does not come out anything
very very much to say .. I think if we head write a book about it … and I have not mentioned about the types of massage or ice on the game ….
I do not have time but here are 2 small tricks
1.cand take a view that is lost ice in your mouth and kissed her breasts easy actually inebuneasca
2.If there are still laws in one eye and not know where your hand or where the next one to kiss this one will be much more careful at all ….

 

Tricks to improve penetration

Wednesday, October 14th, 2009

A very small penis

If you think you have a penis smaller than average length, not dramatized: try to detached little and think \ “cold … \” First, penis length has nothing to do with a man’s ability to and meet partner. Second, penetration is not the only form of sexuality! Massage, caresses or oral sex i will get some pertenerei sensations as pleasant, as many chances as she reaches orgasm (and even more!).

Here are some tricks that will help increase pleasure in intercourse. Choose those positions that allow deep penetration or enabling tightening the vagina around the penis. Taken the position in the back (ogarca), or the missionary position, putting one or two pillows under the buttocks partner. Lifting her feet, penetration will be very deep. Settling the above men, women can control both the pace and depth of penetration. Increasing friction causes IBS changing inclination vaginalevor penis look bigger. Covering legs with thighs male partner, the risk of involuntary exits the penis decreases considerably. Make moves faster and deeper, noting at the same time and partner likes most.
For those who want to increase their penis length and volume, we advise to use a special device (developpeur) consisting of a pump that allows an erect penis to reach maximum (and therefore maximum longimea) before intercourse. Used regularly, this device will allow sustained growth of the penis with precious few millimeters.
One last tip: Men with small penis are exposed more often, unfortunately, the issues it is premature ejaculation. Since the nerve endings of the glans are focused on a much smaller area, men with smaller penis is more sensitive. You often masturbating and engaging you to control your orgasm, you can become a little more \ “insensitive \”.

Penis too big

Vaginal canal is very flexible: do not forget that here goes baby at birth. It is thus perfectly able to receive a penis, even one of considerable magnitude. For this, sufficient little tact and a good tactic!
First, make sure that the partner is very excited to be well lubricated vagina. The important thing: do not rush the prelude, but rather, give her as much time. Otherwise even with an abundant vaginal discharge, partner could cause some pain. In this case, use a lubricant, preferably a water soluble gel (water-based gel).
Choose those positions where penetration is too deep, such as lateral position (on the back or front), very pleasant and comfortable. Position Andromache (man and woman above the bottom) will enable the partner control the pace and depth of penetration. Avoid instead ogarcai position (the back) that favor a penetration depth can be painful for women.
Make gentle movements: the first type only one third of the penis, wait at least for the vagina to get used, and continue progressively penetration. After you have penetrated a complete (or almost) start movement go come. Besides if the woman he loves and desires, avoid rubbing deep, sudden or too rapid. And everything should be done safely.

A vagina too tight

If you have vagina too tight, penetration can be unpleasant, even painful (if it proves to be extremely painful and even impossible, might be suffering from vaginismus: but in this case is a sexual dysfunction that psychological factors play an important role).

A normal birth will bring healing, most likely. Until then, stay quiet, a child is not the only option provided to you. Systematic use of a lubricant is the most effective for penetration to be enjoyable. The heat will spread lubricant and vaginal secretions in exactly the right places. Expect to be as excited before you leave entered. Explanation partner you need for a more prolonged foreplay the vagina to be well lubricated and dilated.
Adopted that position with legs extended. Removing good hips and bending knees will facilitate penetration. When partner begin to penetrate, the vaginal muscles relaxed, as if you try to expel something from the vagina. Ask your partner to go gradually, slowly, then indicate them when you are ready for a deeper penetration. If you trust him and feel that it can wait until you consider that you are ready, you will be more relaxed, more relaxed and more welcoming vaginal muscles!

A vagina too wide

Some women are registered to a relaxation of the vaginal muscles after childbirth, others have the conformation a wider vagina. So in one case and in another, the penis is tight during the report being less strong sensations for both partners. As a remedy, some very good gym help! Kegel’s exercises, developed in 50 years by Dr. Arnold Kegel, have to intarii platform surrounding pelvic muscles (muscles that contract during orgasm). First to locate the PC muscle (pubococcigian). The muscle you use when you urinate or you will refrain to shake apart the vaginal walls around your finger, you are in good shape. Otherwise you will be re-educated or PC muscle fortified him.
Muscles contracted and destindeti this 25 times, first 2 times per day. For the first 2 times per day. For starters, take it slow, you can speed up as you continue training. When you manage to do this quickly 25 times in a row, you move to a higher level: 50 times 2 times a day. Now you try to keep each contraction counting to 3, before the muscle relaxes (first of 25 times per day then 50 times). This will take only a few weeks. You will notice a huge change during sex ratio: this exercise increases orgasmic capacity and tight contract between the penis and vagina. Not only will become more muscular and more narrow, but you can weight doing these exercises in partner’s penis during intercourse.

 

Are you too tired for sex?

Wednesday, October 14th, 2009

No doubt about the fact that the working environment can affect your love life, or you may miss it. Being stressed by your job or unhappy at work, are that kills passion. However it is possible to forget about problems at work and regain your passion.

How to bring back the romantic moments in your bed?

A recent survey, the UK, showed that 57% of women believe that their work affects their sex lives. Fortunately there are a number of strategies you can try to eliminate the discussion about your place of work whenever you try to have an intimate moment with your partner:

* Change your routine after working hours: Do not head to the couch as soon as you get home. Rather go to a gym, which will stimulate your nervous system and blood pressure will increase.

* Discuss a little about things that happen. After you get home, book your 10 -15 minutes to talk about how she spent on each of you. This is the perfect way to relax and forget about problems at work.

* Spoil yourself. Buy quality lingerie, but sexy – not only will you look sexy, but you will and feel like. Spoil yourself with a beauty treatment or buy yourself a bottle of your favorite perfume.
Making these concessions are reaffirms uniqueness. All this will help you Develop a good mood and a good mood leads to a game of sex as good.

* Change the scenery. Get a romantic weekend trip with your partner, somewhere where you can be harassed by service problems.

* Kiss him for long: instead of a short kiss goodbye, kissing him long next time you get home – a sensual kiss can be a perfect incentive.

Food suitable for a romantic mood

Try these foods to encourage your libido at:
* Drink a cup of tea, ginkgo biloba an hour before having sex: Studies show that this plant can facilitate the orgasm, increasing your blood pressure in the sexual organs. But before you buy ginkgo discuss first with your doctor to find out if you have some health problems that prevent you to use it.

* Eat chocolate: Research has shown that chocolate contains some substances that increase energy, feelings of attraction, excitement and arousal.

* Serve mussels: This aphrodisiac contains antioxidants and certain elements necessary for proper function of sexual activity.

 

Myths about sex

Wednesday, October 14th, 2009

love love is almost impossible to grow in today’s society without buying some misconceptions or myths about sex ..
Our sexual behavior is learned it is not automatic or instinctive. Our instruction on sexuality begins at an early age, both directly and indirectly. Information can come from friends, from older children (who are equally ignorant), the jokes with sexual bait, in magazines, movies and the behavior of parents and others.

* Make love involves sex. For most people the two terms are synonymous. In fact, making love means physical and emotional interaction with someone in the know. Arousal and sex are simple options of this. This myth is one of the most important causes of sexual neîmplinirii and overcome it is important if you want a revival of your life and maximize your potential sexual intercourse.

* Pleasant physical contact must lead to sex. Men have grown up with the idea that only have access to two types of physical contact: aggressive (sport and self defense) and sex. This may mean that to achieve a woman necessarily lead to sex. One of the biggest complaints by women about men is that only when they become affectionate sex.

Women may feel used. All we are born with a need to reach others. While touch and sex remain closely linked in your mind, you risk going to put pressure on the partner and on you, which is not good.

* The ability to make love by itself. This misconception belongs especially men. It is true that sex is a natural function of the human body, but most of us learn to be sensual. – Make Love is like playing the violin and requires as much intuition that practice.

* Men are responsible for what happens during sex. – If I would really love would know what I like and what I need during sex .- Men and women are equal, both in general and in terms of sex and sex have the same rights and responsibilities. There is no reason for man to feel responsible for everything that happens during intercourse.

Responsibility is shared by the partners of the facts.
Just as, from time to time, a woman feels the need to be passive sexually, as happens in men. During intercourse each partner is responsible for its own excitement. It is your own responsibility to make sure that you get the boost you want, or you need where you want it and how long. Your only obligation to you partner is trying as much give him what they want.

* Marriage ensure happiness and sexual fulfillment. This can happen in the story of sleeping children heard when they were young, but, in reality, marriage is a difficult problem with pressure, anxiety and conflict. In a good relationship as sex marriage varies from up to extraordinarily unpleasant. If you expect things to automatically become perfect or even better, you are constantly disappointed and frustrated.

* As you get older, you lose your interest in sex and do not you can do. You are never too old to be interested in sex. In favorable circumstances, age has a slight effect on libido. Often blamed on the effects of aging, which is not true, although it is convenient. Tragic thing is that if you really believe it will happen, such is the power of mind and our expectations.

* Too much sex weakens you. Generations of the athletics coaches had a great importance in spreading this myth. However, in general, is really almost the opposite. A healthy sexual appetite, satisfied regularly, It will generate even more pleasure, but more excitement in everyday life.

 

Oral sex

Friday, July 24th, 2009

Oral sex relates to anything done with the mouth from:

  • deep kissing
  • continuous kissing all over the body and the genitals
  • fellatio
  • cunnilingus

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Oral sex should always be done with a great deal of:

  • patience
  • personal hygiene
  • sensitivity
  • tenderness

It can be difficult for some people to do if you do not enjoy giving oral sex and this can cause tenseness and upset with your partner.

 

Masturbation in men

Thursday, May 11th, 2006

Masturbation: one might say that is one of the delicacies on this earth.
Unfortunately, modern society, masturbation is not always thought and told in positive terms, and sometimes it is difficult for people to receive useful information about masturbation and how to get the hottest sensations. Therefore here to Sexual Education can read a guide on how to autosatisfaci. • WHAT IS MASTURBATION? For men, masturbation is the act of manually stimulating the penis to produce pleasure. For adults and youth, masturbation usually ends with ejaculation, in that there is fluid in sperm cells. Premature orgasm is usually accompanied by a feeling of pleasure of the entire body so strong that it can not be compared with any other feeling that the body can have. • Why masturbate? If you masturbate before May, then know the answer to this question. In addition is a feeling that makes you feel good, masturbation frees you of sexual tension that builds up gradually over time. Almost every man older younger or is excited, his mind becomes preoccupied with thoughts erotic (sexy). This is a normal process. Your organs produce and accumulate semen, your body responds by making you to want to ejaculate semen to make room to another. In a way this is happening in “nocturnal emissions or” wet-dreams “- ejaculation during sleep. Another way is through masturbation, when you stimulate your penis tricking him like he had a sexual contact. It is important to understand in spite of what you hear (the words, friends, or older persons), masturbation is safe – you have to let anyone pregnant masturbating you, and you can not get any a disease. Not affect your penis size or ability to have an erection or later when you have kids. Instead, you should practice for intercourse when you’re ready and you meet the right person. • HOW years should I take to masturbate? If you read this article rather than to masturbate! You might think you’re too young to ejaculate. Most boys begin to ejaculate semen when they are between 12 and 15, although some people begin to age more ejaculation or even smaller. Can you masturbate and even have orgasms and ejaculate before he could. However, for many men, the most powerful orgasm sensations are those accompanied by a large amount of sperm ejaculation. In fact, some guys like to keep the nemasturbandu for a while, so have a profound orgasm and ejaculation one bigger than the usual. •’s something wrong with MASTURBATION? Absolutely nothing. Years ago it was believed that masturbation causes blindness, insanity, hairy :-) palm of your hand, or other problems, though, and then as today masturbation was very common. All these beliefs have been disproved by modern science, although some “gossip”, “myths” still remain. (If those stories were true there was a lot of people blind, insane, to appear on the hands !!!). Masturbation is not a “disease”, and not only for homosexuals, is without danger and on top is “cool”. • YOU ARE A LOSER IF you masturbate? Absolutely and without question, NO! You probably hear someone else saying “motherfucker” as an insult, or heard someone he does not need to masturbate because he is part of “real” sex. That’s just nonsense.

Trust us – such people throw insults actually masturbate, feel guilty that they do, and then further insult used to make others feel guilty for masturbating. It is a horrible defect that makes us all to feel guilty for this wonderful thing we can do our bodies. This cycle can be stopped only if you realize that almost everyone masturbate – even adults who experience the “real” sex all timpul.Doar when you say that you masturbate and you’re proud of it (even if you to say only you), you realize what losers are those people who lie to themselves and each other instead of making them happy others. We hope that this behavior disappears and does not return back! • TOO MUCH CAN masturbate? In the first years after you discovered masturbation, almost all boys masturbate more frequently than do so in the rest of life. It is not uncommon for a boy of 13-14 years to masturbate for 3, 4 or 5 or 6 times a day. (Although I once heard from a guy who once cica would masturbate in a day and had about 22 orgasms). When not surprising that some worry that guys would do it too often. • How much is it “NORMAL”? There is no measure to indicate ‘normal’. You can not run out of sperm, as much as you can not run out of saliva, so you can masturbate as often as you want. The worst thing that can happen is that your penis to irritate. (take any part of your body and rub and you’ll see what happens). In any civilized group school pupils / students masturbate several times a day, some only once a day, and even some only 2 times a week or less. There is some (few) who do not masturbate – either because they did not “wish” or a reason why they did not think masturbation is healthy and manage to resist the “desire”. But for a young boy to be able to resist masturbation should be very strongly. (However we at Time Sex not see the point) • It’s My penis big enough? This is a very careful meeting among young people. But slow down so that you can masturbate (or have sexual contact with someone) with almost any size of penis. Now you can have as big a problem you have in comparison with other boys. You could hang in the dressing room, especially if you see other older boys with genital May dezvoltate.Sau can you happened to see an erotic movie where a guy got a job that only have one exaggerated anatomy. But it is important to know that while the size of erect penises not vary greatly, the erect not vary greatly. A big penis hanging and one smaller in size can be as you are erect – so do not stress too much because this is lucru.Care media? Well, most erect penises adults between 13 to 15 cm from base to top. If you are more youngsters, surely you have something to grow. Some say that their penis has grown to the age of 17 or 18 years – but most boys penis reach maturity at age 16. One thing to discuss it more later, how and in what circumstances is measured penis size.