You fight about taking the garbage, the kids or so many other things… Women don’t forget a thing.
One day they’ll complain about things that don’t cross your mind and the fight will be “why didn’t you thought about this?” They will be things like “why don’t you give me any flowers without a special occasion” or “take me to a restaurant because I’m tired of cooking” or so many others that can’t be figured out even though you listen to her desires.
Well girls, the boys aren’t the problem.
First of all, when you talk to them learn to talk only about necessary and important things. Because you say many things among which many are unimportant and uninteresting to your boyfriend, he adapts a self-property of hearing but not thinking about what you said. Tomorrow you’ll change your mind, so why bother. That’s why I suggest you talk to your best friend or avoid talking about daily stuff, and have interesting conversations with your boyfriend. There are so many things that you don’t know about him because you didn’t listen to him, but you’ve expected for him to listen to you.
Secondly, try to figure out for yourself why you are feeling irritated about some problems and try to resolve them. Don’t always rely on people to fix your life and mostly, don’t put on your partner’s head your problems.
Many things can be resolved just by talking.
