When two people love eachother they tend to get together and form a couple. Sometimes it works sometimes it doesn’t. It’s how you deal with it – that’s the important thing.
As the relationship will advance, you will tend to observe that it’s not just milk and honey. It’s called growing up, and it is done by observing the things that surround you and understanding them. People do not have just good sides. They have the bad ones too, either you want it or not.
After the exposure has been made, most people will try to fix it by attempting to change his/her partner so it will just make the defects go away. It’s much more complicated than that. One has a personality because the person is built upon goods and bads, greats and flaws, solutions and errors. It’s understandable that when dating both of you will try and hide the bad side of you so you’ll get liked faster.
By doing that you compromise the entire future couple that will probably be formed. Why not be yourself. After all, if someone will like you, will like you overall, as who you are. Hiding the bads will not do good in the future.
All of the above will mostly cause an arguing point inside a couple, and if not treated carefuly it will rupture it. Also try to avoid changing your partner, talk to him/her instead. Get to a conclusion and a rational solution, both of you. Because that’s what a couple means.
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