If you’ve suffered very much because of a person, it may be very difficult to forgive, but you must know that this forgiveness can be helpful for you.
We are used to look at forgiveness like a sign of weakness. Like the other one escapes unpunished. But forgiving doesn’t necessarily mean that. You can forgive by trying to figure out what was that person thinking about and why he/she did that. It doesn’t mean that you forget about what he/she has done. It simply helps you see the original problem.
This kind of forgiveness helps you eliminate the negative thoughts about that person and live your life better. You must accept the situation in which you were put without your knowledge.
There are some steps to forgiveness:
If you are in front of a bad situation or news about a person, first of all express your feelings. It’s very important to not keep it all inside you. Think about what feelings this brings out of you and why.
Secondly, be logical. Why did he/she did that? What can be the motive? Can there really be a good motive?
And thirdly, put yourself in his/hers position. Would you do the same?
Don’t rush with your emotions or anger. Try to understand the ones around you and if they make you feel bad, don’t let these feelings aspirate you. Live your life logically!
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wow !! very beautiful image ! first of all, realize that to forgive is against the basic nature of humans. our first thought is usually something like–i’ll get even–i’ll show ‘em what payback is all about, or something along those lines.thank you.
Forgiveness is always something you do for yourself, not the other person. It is only us that carries around anger and resentment. It does not affect the other person. Understanding that another human being does things based on the way they know how to survive and that you re doing the same helps to feel more compassion.
Forgiveness is a show of love, you are not doing it just to feel better for yourself. But you do it because you love the person, you want to show him that despite what he had done you are willing to give him because you care about him and you want him to realize his mistake.
I just watched “Doomed by lust” on E! channel. A well known senator cheated on his wife but the wife is still on his side. I found that amazing and after reading your blog, I believe forgiveness is the answer for that. No doubt.